April 2018

Do I have to attend the funeral of the one relative I liked in my awful family?

Dear Bear, My uncle has just died and that's very sad for me. We liked each other a lot and often spent the hard parts of family gatherings doing chores and escaping from our other relatives which neither of us ever liked very much. I think from many clues he dropped that he was actually gay and closeted but never came out during his life. I am gay and out and my family strongly disapproves. Anyway, his funeral is definitely going to be awful. It will be a lot of people I don't like ...
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