March 2020

I need my joyfriend to stop and think about my feelings, but they won’t. Why?

Dear Bear, My joyfriend is smart and interesting and funny and great and also sometimes when they see something they want they just go barreling forward toward it and start acting like a jerk if I ask for pause or process or consideration. Some of the things impact me in significant ways like job changes that will mean a real change of income or a new weirdo restrictive diet they want us both to be on because that's a way I can be supporting. It's not just minor stuff like someone ...
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