November 2015

HOW CAN I FORGIVE SOMEONE FOR DUMPING ME?

Dear Bear, I am being told I don’t understand anything about forgiveness. And maybe I don’t. My partner of five years has decided to leave me and he says I need to forgive and move on. I say that easy for him to say. He’s not the one who’s having his heart broken. He’s not the one who has discovered that the person he thought loved him was actually not very interested in being in the relationship. He’s not the one who is now stuck trying to figure out what the fuck to do now. ...
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MY FRIEND IS GETTING MARRIED TO SOMEONE AWFUL. WHAT CAN I DO?

Dear Bear, One of my closest friends began dating someone about a year ago, and even though I've really tried to embrace her, I strongly dislike her. It's been a strain on our friendship from my perspective but he's so blissed out on new relationship energy that he actually doesn't have a clue I don't like her. She did some things early in their relationship that raised red flags to me, and I pointed them out tactfully. But once he declared his undying love for her and made significant ...
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